Comments for Dating Tales http://www.datingtales.net Chronicles for the single, the formerly single, and those wishing they were single. Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:48:42 -0700 hourly 1 Comment on Dating a Doctor: Pros and Cons by molly http://www.datingtales.net/2007/10/dating-a-doctor-pros-and-cons/comment-page-5/#comment-19494 molly Wed, 10 Mar 2010 04:48:42 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/10/dating-a-doctor-pros-and-cons/#comment-19494 I started dating a CV surgeon 4 months ago. This group is so great, I have gone through ALL the same stuff! He has very little time, I am busy too, so that works out pretty well. I think their unavailability is a big part of the attraction. I wish I hadn't started up with him, now I'm stuck. I can't date anyone else when I am emotionally tied to him. So I just wait and hope he breaks up with me! I know a surgeon is an adrenaline rush-loving person. I am that way too since seeing him. I don't like being that way, I prefer a contented, placid partnership. But instead I get this. I feel like it's some kind of weird Karma I have to work out. For all the guys I treated like I'm being treated now! I started dating a CV surgeon 4 months ago. This group is so great, I have gone through ALL the same stuff! He has very little time, I am busy too, so that works out pretty well. I think their unavailability is a big part of the attraction. I wish I hadn’t started up with him, now I’m stuck. I can’t date anyone else when I am emotionally tied to him. So I just wait and hope he breaks up with me! I know a surgeon is an adrenaline rush-loving person. I am that way too since seeing him. I don’t like being that way, I prefer a contented, placid partnership. But instead I get this. I feel like it’s some kind of weird Karma I have to work out. For all the guys I treated like I’m being treated now!

]]> Comment on Dating Advice – How to Successfully Date a Doctor by Sara http://www.datingtales.net/2009/01/dating-advice-%e2%80%93-how-to-successfully-date-a-doctor/comment-page-1/#comment-18767 Sara Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:55:16 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/?p=344#comment-18767 I'm having such a hard time with my boyfriend. he's a doctor, just finished his fellowship a couple of years ago. he's working at the hospital, and doing 12 hour days. i now his time is limited, but at the begaining of our relationship, he always made time for me. now that we've been dating for a few months, it's different. No longer will he put other things before me. so instead of just waiting for him to get done with work, and bothering him that will stress him out even more, i make plans wth my friends so that i'm busy and can leave him alone when he's at work. he usually lets me know when he's on his way home and no matter what i'm doing, i leave to be wtih him. This was okay in the past, but now, he considers this planning things withoout him, and he's very upset. i had to cancel all of my plans wtih my firends this week, jsut to prove that i put him first. He actually say it, that he should be number one on my list before anyone. being that we've only been together for a short time, this is very egotisic. I've also noticed other bad behaviors that doctors have. no matter how he hurts my feelings, he won't be there to comfort me. He has to be rigth about everything, and because he's so smart, it's hard for to me discuess my point without feeling completely attacked by him. he tells me that he loves me dearly and everything is going to work out, but his actions speak otherwise. I don't know how much more of this i can take. it just seems that doctors think that they can do whatever they want, and if you leave them, no big deal, cause they'll have another girl waiting in line. help... I’m having such a hard time with my boyfriend. he’s a doctor, just finished his fellowship a couple of years ago. he’s working at the hospital, and doing 12 hour days. i now his time is limited, but at the begaining of our relationship, he always made time for me. now that we’ve been dating for a few months, it’s different. No longer will he put other things before me. so instead of just waiting for him to get done with work, and bothering him that will stress him out even more, i make plans wth my friends so that i’m busy and can leave him alone when he’s at work. he usually lets me know when he’s on his way home and no matter what i’m doing, i leave to be wtih him. This was okay in the past, but now, he considers this planning things withoout him, and he’s very upset. i had to cancel all of my plans wtih my firends this week, jsut to prove that i put him first. He actually say it, that he should be number one on my list before anyone. being that we’ve only been together for a short time, this is very egotisic. I’ve also noticed other bad behaviors that doctors have. no matter how he hurts my feelings, he won’t be there to comfort me. He has to be rigth about everything, and because he’s so smart, it’s hard for to me discuess my point without feeling completely attacked by him. he tells me that he loves me dearly and everything is going to work out, but his actions speak otherwise. I don’t know how much more of this i can take. it just seems that doctors think that they can do whatever they want, and if you leave them, no big deal, cause they’ll have another girl waiting in line. help…

]]> Comment on Dating a Lawyer: Pros and Cons by Janet http://www.datingtales.net/2007/09/dating-a-lawyer-pros-and-cons/comment-page-1/#comment-18556 Janet Mon, 01 Feb 2010 18:38:03 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/09/dating-a-lawyer-pros-and-cons/#comment-18556 Maribel- I am dating a lawyer who is 13 years older than me too, but our age gap is also met with a maturity gap because I am 20 and he is 33 (so comapratively I have a lot less life experience than he has). Don't worry about the age at all, but be careful because it sounds like you could unintentionally fall into using him or vice-versa. Also keep in mind that lawyers cannot date their clients... so unless you two just remain friends there is really no way for him to help ya out. Anyway, I wish the best of luck! Maribel- I am dating a lawyer who is 13 years older than me too, but our age gap is also met with a maturity gap because I am 20 and he is 33 (so comapratively I have a lot less life experience than he has). Don’t worry about the age at all, but be careful because it sounds like you could unintentionally fall into using him or vice-versa. Also keep in mind that lawyers cannot date their clients… so unless you two just remain friends there is really no way for him to help ya out. Anyway, I wish the best of luck!

]]> Comment on Dating Advice – How to Successfully Date a Doctor by Ms L http://www.datingtales.net/2009/01/dating-advice-%e2%80%93-how-to-successfully-date-a-doctor/comment-page-1/#comment-18472 Ms L Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:19:16 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/?p=344#comment-18472 I've been dating my hunny for about 3-4 months now... One thing I can say in having dated men with demanding professions, it boils down to the person. I actually veered away from dating men with demanding careers primarily because of the pompous 'i'm Tarzan you Jane' attitude that can come along with it. My guy is a Hospitalist and works insane! He always manages to make time for me ... And for the time that we have apart our communication is beyond consistent. Doctor, Lawyer Or Indian Chief if he wants you he will make you happy as much as he is able just as you would sacrifice to be compromising to make him happy. I'm the only child so my alone time is necessary... I find that it works for me just fine...My advice...If you don't have unlimited text... You might want to make that happen :) To San.... There's never bad timing for flower :) To Anonymous ... It's not that hard...He's not your boyfriend...mo meeting of friends or family is a red flare! To Snow be strong my dear... You definitely deserve better you sound like a total sweetheart! I’ve been dating my hunny for about 3-4 months now… One thing I can say in having dated men with demanding professions, it boils down to the person. I actually veered away from dating men with demanding careers primarily because of the pompous ‘i’m Tarzan you Jane’ attitude that can come along with it. My guy is a Hospitalist and works insane! He always manages to make time for me … And for the time that we have apart our communication is beyond
consistent. Doctor, Lawyer Or Indian Chief if
he wants you he will make you happy as
much as he is able just as you would sacrifice to be compromising to make him happy. I’m the only child so my alone time is necessary… I find that it works for me just fine…My advice…If you don’t have unlimited text… You might want to make that happen :) To
San…. There’s never bad timing for flower :) To Anonymous … It’s not that hard…He’s not your boyfriend…mo meeting of friends or family is a red flare! To Snow be strong my dear… You definitely deserve better you sound like a total sweetheart!

]]> Comment on The 10 Best Compliments a Man Can Give a Woman by Kevin http://www.datingtales.net/2007/06/the-10-best-compliments-a-man-can-give-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-18401 Kevin Tue, 26 Jan 2010 08:38:35 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/06/the-10-best-compliments-a-man-can-give-a-woman/#comment-18401 People should live life to the fullest and not let any thing stand in ur way of ur dreams chase them and never let them go hold them tie’t in ur arm's. friends and loved ones will be with u forever as u go though life so talk to them wan ur having trouble they will lesion and be with u in ur hard times. life is easy to lose and should try to repair broken friend ships so there is no regret’s later on in life and so u can be at peas when it is time to leave this world and u don't have any regrets and knowing u lived ur life to the fullest and u can be at peas. do things that u think u can not do push ur self strive for new hits in life and never stop pushing ur self u will be surprised on what u can do so just tell people u like or love them and don't be afraid of what the answer mite be because they mite feel the same but to afraid to tell u that they like u. And when u are having a bad time don’t hold on to the bad feeling’s u should let it go by talking to someone u can trust and care about and can talk to them about anything even if it’s a pet just talk to someone or some thing to let it go so it can roll right of ur shoulder’s to move on from the loss or the pain u may feel, because if u hold in ur feeling’s and pain in time it will eat u up in side and change who u are as a person. So if u let it go and let the pain be free it will not change u from the inside out. People should live life to the fullest and not let any thing stand in ur way of ur dreams chase them and never let them go hold them tie’t in ur arm’s. friends and loved ones will be with u forever as u go though life so talk to them wan ur having trouble they will lesion and be with u in ur hard times. life is easy to lose and should try to repair broken friend ships so there is no regret’s later on in life and so u can be at peas when it is time to leave this world and u don’t have any regrets and knowing u lived ur life to the fullest and u can be at peas. do things that u think u can not do push ur self strive for new hits in life and never stop pushing ur self u will be surprised on what u can do so just tell people u like or love them and don’t be afraid of what the answer mite be because they mite feel the same but to afraid to tell u that they like u. And when u are having a bad time don’t hold on to the bad feeling’s u should let it go by talking to someone u can trust and care about and can talk to them about anything even if it’s a pet just talk to someone or some thing to let it go so it can roll right of ur shoulder’s to move on from the loss or the pain u may feel, because if u hold in ur feeling’s and pain in time it will eat u up in side and change who u are as a person. So if u let it go and let the pain be free it will not change u from the inside out.

]]> Comment on Bad Compliments a Man Can Give a Woman by Bobby http://www.datingtales.net/2007/06/bad-compliments-a-man-can-give-a-woman/comment-page-1/#comment-18329 Bobby Sat, 23 Jan 2010 12:33:14 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/06/bad-compliments-a-man-can-give-a-woman/#comment-18329 One of the best compliments a man can give a woman would be.. and this works in any situation..You know something..I'll bet there's not a single lady(say lady not woman guys! ) in this town that is as pretty and smart as you sweety.. This breaks the ice One of the best compliments a man can give a woman would be.. and this works in any situation..You know something..I’ll bet there’s not a single lady(say lady not woman guys! ) in this town that is as pretty and smart as you sweety.. This breaks the ice

]]> Comment on Dating a Doctor: Pros and Cons by Mantasha http://www.datingtales.net/2007/10/dating-a-doctor-pros-and-cons/comment-page-5/#comment-18108 Mantasha Mon, 18 Jan 2010 11:25:51 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/10/dating-a-doctor-pros-and-cons/#comment-18108 Hey Guys... seems like dating a doc is not easy as it sounds... how about a long distance relationship with a doc... in its early stages :) Well people i need help... any bright ideas about a valentine's day gift... plus this is the first 14 feb together so should i wait to see if he wants to celebrate... more appropriately if he has time to do so... help plz Hey Guys… seems like dating a doc is not easy as it sounds… how about a long distance relationship with a doc… in its early stages :)

Well people i need help… any bright ideas about a valentine’s day gift… plus this is the first 14 feb together so should i wait to see if he wants to celebrate… more appropriately if he has time to do so…

help plz

]]> Comment on Dating Advice – How to Successfully Date a Doctor by San http://www.datingtales.net/2009/01/dating-advice-%e2%80%93-how-to-successfully-date-a-doctor/comment-page-1/#comment-18031 San Fri, 15 Jan 2010 12:13:21 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/?p=344#comment-18031 I read these posts befor even thinking of going on a date with my doctor friend and was troubled by the always busy factor.... but I thought I'd give it a try after all I am studying and dont need to have a BF who's always there.... but to be stood up on the first date for patients sucks!!!!!!! Sure the flowers the next day was a nice touch but on the first date?! ... I read these posts befor even thinking of going on a date with my doctor friend and was troubled by the always busy factor…. but I thought I’d give it a try after all I am studying and dont need to have a BF who’s always there…. but to be stood up on the first date for patients sucks!!!!!!! Sure the flowers the next day was a nice touch but on the first date?! …

]]> Comment on Pros and Cons of Dating a Mortician by Stephanie http://www.datingtales.net/2008/06/pros-and-cons-of-dating-a-mortician/comment-page-1/#comment-17812 Stephanie Fri, 08 Jan 2010 18:58:13 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/?p=197#comment-17812 What is so gross about being a mortician? If anything, I'd think that we are much cleaner than the average person, just because we work on dead bodies all day, dosent mean we dont have time to wash our hands or shower. Actually, some funeral homes, before gaining access to the remains, you must first shower and prepare your self for sanitization in the embalming suite. What is so gross about being a mortician? If anything, I’d think that we are much cleaner than the average person, just because we work on dead bodies all day, dosent mean we dont have time to wash our hands or shower. Actually, some funeral homes, before gaining access to the remains, you must first shower and prepare your self for sanitization in the embalming suite.

]]> Comment on Dating a Lawyer: Pros and Cons by Maribel http://www.datingtales.net/2007/09/dating-a-lawyer-pros-and-cons/comment-page-1/#comment-17466 Maribel Sun, 27 Dec 2009 08:56:16 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2007/09/dating-a-lawyer-pros-and-cons/#comment-17466 I just met this Mediator/Attorney in the court house about a week ago. He is 42yrs old and i am 28 yrs old.. He is so Handsome and i cant stop thinking about him. Ive only gone out with him once for about 2 hrs and the whole time he couldn't keep hes hands off me. I really need him to help me out with my custody case and at the same time i want us to remain friends but it just seems like all he want is to get me in bed. Every time we talk over the phone he always ask if i could get out for a little bit so that we can go be bad. Im going through a lot right now and sleeping with someone is the last thing that's on my mind even tho i wouldn't mind. He already offer to help me out with my case no matter what. He said that i don't have to feel like i need to do anything with him just because he is helping me out. So that's a good thing! My only concern is that i dont here from him every day (not that he has to call me every day) I guess what i am trying to figure out How should i go about this relationship? I really like him but i feel like all he wants is to get me in bed, Theirs a age gap of 13 yrs, and i don't want to stop talking to him because i really need him to help me out with my case. And i don't have the money to pay for an Attorney. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I just met this Mediator/Attorney in the court house about a week ago. He is 42yrs old and i am 28 yrs old.. He is so Handsome and i cant stop thinking about him. Ive only gone out with him once for about 2 hrs and the whole time he couldn’t keep hes hands off me. I really need him to help me out with my custody case and at the same time i want us to remain friends but it just seems like all he want is to get me in bed. Every time we talk over the phone he always ask if i could get out for a little bit so that we can go be bad. Im going through a lot right now and sleeping with someone is the last thing that’s on my mind even tho i wouldn’t mind. He already offer to help me out with my case no matter what. He said that i don’t have to feel like i need to do anything with him just because he is helping me out. So that’s a good thing! My only concern is that i dont here from him every day (not that he has to call me every day) I guess what i am trying to figure out How should i go about this relationship? I really like him but i feel like all he wants is to get me in bed, Theirs a age gap of 13 yrs, and i don’t want to stop talking to him because i really need him to help me out with my case. And i don’t have the money to pay for an Attorney. WHAT SHOULD I DO???

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