Comments on: How to Date a Doctor

By: c

Thu, 16 Dec 2010 15:50:44 +0000

Last year at this time I was dating a doctor. Now I am not dating him. I am dating a man three years younger than I am. My new boyfriend has time to cook with me, time to take walks with me, and responds to my phone calls. The doctor who I tried to date had the emotional IQ of a child. He had been married twice and had three kids. He was nine years older than me.

The doctor wouldn’t wear a condom. IDIOT! His second wife had HPV and cheated on him.

He created anxiety in me by not communicating well. He made money but was cheap. He was a workaholic. He hid behind his work.

His first child spent very little time with his father and is now grown. This is not the model of male behavior that I want for my son.

By: nina

nina — Thu, 16 Dec 2010 00:12:57 +0000

Hi guys, its great finally finding other women who face similiar challenges like myself as a result of dating a doctor. I met my bf 1.5 year ago. He is the most charming man I have ever met. He stole me from the day we met!! I really care a lot about him and want my relationship to work.we broke up once and got back together cuz he says hes in love with me. I justed melted cuz I had no idea he even cared that much. He never did show it or I guess time wouldn’t allow him to. He is in general surgery and on call all the time. With that we are also mainating a long distance rship. It can be so difficult sometimes. I miss him 100 percent of the time. He doesn’t even have time to respond to msgs.its difficult for me cuz I have never been in a rship like this before. He is eleven years my senior and that’s a first for me too. I thought that a couple had to spend much quality time together to build a strong rship, am finding out now that, that approach don’t necessarily apply to my current bf. He says he wants kids with me but I think we would need to spend time together to achieve that I feel like being in this rship is more of an understanding or aggreement than two presons in love. I know that sounds bad, but I can’t help the feeling sometimes. I always try to be positive about our future together, I motivate and encourage him on a daily basis and he appreciates it. I really do wish all of us a long and truly fullfilling rships with our doctors!!!! A lot of girls would kill to be in our shoes, if only they knew and understand the work we put into maintaing our positive rships.

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By: c

Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:24:38 +0000

I’m glad you have this website. I am 44 divorced once and found a single dad on line who turned out to be a doctor. He has been divorced 2x. He has three kids. He is always busy with kids or work. I have never spent so little time with someone that I am dating. Only time will tell. Time spent with him is on his terms. He is just not that into me…or he is really busy.

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:04:44 +0000

Thank you T.
I normally wouldn’t touch sites like this with a barge-poll, but I’ve come here, read some wonderful advice and been given some wonderful advice and encouragement and I did not even have to register or pay a penny.

I do feel really good about this lady.

By: ~T~

~T~ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:45:50 +0000

As far as entertaining – you know what? When you want to spend time together you find some of the best things are free! Take a walk, go to the park, just sit and talk on the couch. Its the person you are getting to know – you shouldn’t have to “shower” her with money. She already has that – all she needs now is you!

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:15:35 +0000

Thanks T. You make a good point. I am just getting to know this lady, so I have some time to show my value. I’m not attracted to her being a Doctor, I am attracted to her being intelligent and caring [and gorgeous.] I had no idea that she was a Doctor when I first started chatting to her. I have to admit that I am a little intimidated by her being a wealthy person, and I am not. I don’t mind not being wealthy, but I guess I need a lot of money to ‘entertain.’ This too is something I can figure out over time.

By: ~T~

~T~ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 01:53:40 +0000

One thing I can tell you is that you need to value yourself as someone that is worth getting to know regardless who you decide to venture into a relationship with. Only then will you have a successful relationship. Remember, as a doctor they typically have a lot of choices just because of their status but the fact that she wants to get to know you is brownie points.

Any relationship is work but having a relationship with someone who is a doctor requires even more work because of their demanding lifestye. If you are up for the challenge then go for it!

Hope it works for you!

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:16:08 +0000

I’m communicating with a Doctor online. She seems great, but I feel as though she’s ‘out of my league’ because I am on a low paid job, and she’s a wonderful Doctor. I am also quite shy [in a way] and she’s very confident.
I’d still love to be her partner and willing to fall inlove no matter what hours she works.

Does anyone here at face value think I’m day-dreaming and flogging a dead horse?

By: ~T~

~T~ — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:00:36 +0000

Lulu – if he “forgets” to call you or text you – move on and chalk it up to having another friend in your life. Just casually call or text him every once in a while but it doesn’t sound like he is that interested or he is mature in relationships/friendships. Love yourself enough to say you are worth getting to know and don’t settle for anything less than that! Wish you success!

I totally believe that every relationship is some work because none of us are perfect but it shouldn’t be all one sided. Dating a doctor is not your normal relationship but they are human too and have feelings just like us. Just be true to yourself and everything else will fall into place.