Comments on: How to Date a Doctor

By: c

Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:24:38 +0000

I’m glad you have this website. I am 44 divorced once and found a single dad on line who turned out to be a doctor. He has been divorced 2x. He has three kids. He is always busy with kids or work. I have never spent so little time with someone that I am dating. Only time will tell. Time spent with him is on his terms. He is just not that into me…or he is really busy.

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:04:44 +0000

Thank you T.
I normally wouldn’t touch sites like this with a barge-poll, but I’ve come here, read some wonderful advice and been given some wonderful advice and encouragement and I did not even have to register or pay a penny.

I do feel really good about this lady.

By: ~T~

~T~ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:45:50 +0000

As far as entertaining – you know what? When you want to spend time together you find some of the best things are free! Take a walk, go to the park, just sit and talk on the couch. Its the person you are getting to know – you shouldn’t have to “shower” her with money. She already has that – all she needs now is you!

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 02:15:35 +0000

Thanks T. You make a good point. I am just getting to know this lady, so I have some time to show my value. I’m not attracted to her being a Doctor, I am attracted to her being intelligent and caring [and gorgeous.] I had no idea that she was a Doctor when I first started chatting to her. I have to admit that I am a little intimidated by her being a wealthy person, and I am not. I don’t mind not being wealthy, but I guess I need a lot of money to ‘entertain.’ This too is something I can figure out over time.

By: ~T~

~T~ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 01:53:40 +0000

One thing I can tell you is that you need to value yourself as someone that is worth getting to know regardless who you decide to venture into a relationship with. Only then will you have a successful relationship. Remember, as a doctor they typically have a lot of choices just because of their status but the fact that she wants to get to know you is brownie points.

Any relationship is work but having a relationship with someone who is a doctor requires even more work because of their demanding lifestye. If you are up for the challenge then go for it!

Hope it works for you!

By: +Male+

+Male+ — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:16:08 +0000

I’m communicating with a Doctor online. She seems great, but I feel as though she’s ‘out of my league’ because I am on a low paid job, and she’s a wonderful Doctor. I am also quite shy [in a way] and she’s very confident.
I’d still love to be her partner and willing to fall inlove no matter what hours she works.

Does anyone here at face value think I’m day-dreaming and flogging a dead horse?

By: ~T~

~T~ — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:00:36 +0000

Lulu – if he “forgets” to call you or text you – move on and chalk it up to having another friend in your life. Just casually call or text him every once in a while but it doesn’t sound like he is that interested or he is mature in relationships/friendships. Love yourself enough to say you are worth getting to know and don’t settle for anything less than that! Wish you success!

I totally believe that every relationship is some work because none of us are perfect but it shouldn’t be all one sided. Dating a doctor is not your normal relationship but they are human too and have feelings just like us. Just be true to yourself and everything else will fall into place.

By: Sara

Sara — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:43:52 +0000

I can’t believe any of these fine ladies don’t have words of advice for you Lulu! Where’d everybody go?

It’s tough to say what you should do since only you know what kind of person he is. I think I’m a cynic because I say that if it doesn’t come easy (or at least relatively easy), then it’s not worth your time. There are plenty of men out there that would love spend time with you so why waste time waiting for this one?

By: Lulu

Lulu — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:08:13 +0000

I hope someone can give me some advice about this. I have been dating a Doctor for the past 6 months. He is great and, when we are together we always have a great time. But after that I don’t know about him at all until he calls me. He said he doesn’t like to talk to much on the phone or text. He is a surgeon and he is always busy and on call. He is kind of new in this city so we do not have a lots friend. We have not friends in common. I meet him on a dating site and a few days ago found out his profile still there. He even has new pictures. Lately he forgets to call me back. Last week was my birthday, he text me to say happy birthday and then invited me for dinner. So since Thursday I don’t know anything about him. I have called him on Saturday but he did not return my call. Mmmmmmmm what should I do? People tell me millions of things and I am so confused about everything.

By: ~T~

~T~ — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 15:22:57 +0000

Kally – the best advice I can give you is to just be supportive of his schedule and life like you would any man but realize that because he is a doctor his schedule is not like most. Given that he is finishing up his residency his schedule will continue to get crazier as he gets into a practice full time. Knowing he has a supportive girlfriend, he will want to keep you around because not everyone can handle the crazy schedule of a doctor. Be grateful for the relationship and having him in your life and keep that as the focus and everything else will work out! Best wishes!