Comments on: Finding Love in the Cereal Aisle http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/ Chronicles for the single, the formerly single, and those wishing they were single. Mon, 30 Aug 2010 04:33:28 +0000 hourly 1 By: J http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/comment-page-1/#comment-21901 J Mon, 02 Aug 2010 04:22:44 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/#comment-21901 Everything seems alright in the advice given, except for one thing. Don't give her your number and wait for a call. Ask for hers. Why? Unless she's wholeheartedly attracted to you and not somewhere on the fence, she most likely will not call! Beautiful women tend to get approached often. Unless you take the initiative to spend time with her, there's a major likelihood that she'll forget about you. Everything seems alright in the advice given, except for one thing. Don’t give her your number and wait for a call. Ask for hers. Why? Unless she’s wholeheartedly attracted to you and not somewhere on the fence, she most likely will not call! Beautiful women tend to get approached often. Unless you take the initiative to spend time with her, there’s a major likelihood that she’ll forget about you.

]]> By: Find Love in the Check-Out Line | Dating Tales http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/comment-page-1/#comment-2298 Find Love in the Check-Out Line | Dating Tales Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:07:19 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/#comment-2298 [...] to let us know how his grocery store mama is doing. If you didn’t read my original post, Finding Love in the Cereal Aisle, you should read that first so this makes [...] [...] to let us know how his grocery store mama is doing. If you didn’t read my original post, Finding Love in the Cereal Aisle, you should read that first so this makes [...]

]]> By: Sara http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/comment-page-1/#comment-2165 Sara Mon, 25 Feb 2008 18:17:24 +0000 http://www.datingtales.net/2008/02/dating-tip-finding-love-in-the-cereal-aisle/#comment-2165 Anonymous and I have been talking via comments on other posts. Here they are... ************************* Thank you for replying Sara. After I made the post, and before I read your response, I thought of just saying, “you caught my eye and I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to go out to dinner, movie, for a cup of coffee. It makes sense. I have been told by many women that I am a great guy, but I don’t have any confidence. One woman actually told me that I am the type of guy that every girl wants to have as a boyfriend. I don’t know if that was an insult, but I think one of my problems is that I try to hard, as you stated in your post. Also, like some other men, I am attracted to younger women, and generally speaking, and with all due respect, some younger women are still immature and are trying to figure themselves out and want to date someone who is a jerk. As every woman knows, it is very tough to find someone and there are so many things involved in making a dating decision. Sometimes I just feel like I should just give up, but you just never know who you might meet. Take care, Anonymous ************************* Anonymous: Don’t give up!!! I don’t think that woman was trying to insult you, probably just trying to help. Take a deep breath, put yourself out there, and then just let it go. If she responds, then great. If not, their will be dozens more just like her. -DatingTales ************************* Sara, Thanks for the advice. I will take your advice and give it a try. You might not care, but I will let you and your readers know what happens. Since you will never know my true identity, I will admit that I don’t put myself out there because I don’t want to get hurt and I also think that people will see right through me and that scares the crap out of me. I am Irish and I don’t like to open up to anyone. To quote the great movie Departed, “Freud said that the Irish are the only ones who are impervious to psycho-analysis.” Maybe this is my time to finally put myself out there. Take care, Anonymous. Anonymous and I have been talking via comments on other posts. Here they are…

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Thank you for replying Sara. After I made the post, and before I read your response, I thought of just saying, “you caught my eye and I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to go out to dinner, movie, for a cup of coffee.

It makes sense. I have been told by many women that I am a great guy, but I don’t have any confidence. One woman actually told me that I am the type of guy that every girl wants to have as a boyfriend. I don’t know if that was an insult, but I think one of my problems is that I try to hard, as you stated in your post.

Also, like some other men, I am attracted to younger women, and generally speaking, and with all due respect, some younger women are still immature and are trying to figure themselves out and want to date someone who is a jerk.

As every woman knows, it is very tough to find someone and there are so many things involved in making a dating decision. Sometimes I just feel like I should just give up, but you just never know who you might meet.

Take care,

Anonymous

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Anonymous:

Don’t give up!!! I don’t think that woman was trying to insult you, probably just trying to help. Take a deep breath, put yourself out there, and then just let it go. If she responds, then great. If not, their will be dozens more just like her.

-DatingTales

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Sara,

Thanks for the advice. I will take your advice and give it a try. You might not care, but I will let you and your readers know what happens. Since you will never know my true identity, I will admit that I don’t put myself out there because I don’t want to get hurt and I also think that people will see right through me and that scares the crap out of me.

I am Irish and I don’t like to open up to anyone. To quote the great movie Departed, “Freud said that the Irish are the only ones who are impervious to psycho-analysis.”

Maybe this is my time to finally put myself out there.

Take care,

Anonymous.

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